Part IIa IIaePiety and ObservanceQuestion 116
Quarreling
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Quarreling is a disagreement between people, an altercation in words. When a person makes no effort to be agreeable, contradicts what people say, and gives occasion for bickering, he is quarrelsome. Quarreling is opposed to friendlinessor affability.
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Quarreling seems to be a worse evil than flattery, forthe quarrelsome man causes displeasure and the flatterer tries to increase pleasure. Yet sometimes flattery, by reason of the motive behind it, is worse than quarreling.
Full Summa Text · II-II, Q. 116
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